Published: January 09, 2025
I’ll never forget the time I met David at a networking event in Brisbane. He was a commercial real estate broker, laser-focused on growing his portfolio. We had a brief but engaging conversation, swapped contact details, and—like so many others—I thought that would be the end of it.
But David did something remarkable. He followed up. A week later, I received an email thanking me for the chat and sharing an article he thought I’d enjoy. Over time, we exchanged occasional emails, referred opportunities to one another, and built a professional relationship that lasted years.
This story highlights a crucial truth: Networking doesn’t end when you walk out of the room—it’s just the beginning.
The Problem with ‘One-Time’ Networking
Too many professionals treat networking like speed dating: meet as many people as possible, exchange cards, and hope for magic. But relationships built this way rarely have staying power.
The reality: People don’t remember business cards—they remember connections, conversations, and follow-ups.
The goal of networking isn’t just to meet people—it’s to build trust, nurture relationships, and provide value over time.
3 Strategies for Building Lasting Networking Relationships
1️⃣ The Power of the Follow-Up:
- Follow up within 48 hours of meeting someone.
- Share something valuable: an article, an introduction, or a thank-you note.
2️⃣ Be Consistent:
- Networking isn’t a ‘once-a-year’ activity. Regularly check in with your network—don’t wait until you need something.
3️⃣ Give Before You Get:
- Ask yourself: How can I add value to this person’s business or life?
- Sometimes, it’s as simple as making a referral, sharing knowledge, or lending an ear.
A Story from the Field
Take Amanda, a residential real estate agent in Melbourne. She met a mortgage broker named James at an industry lunch. Instead of letting the connection fade, Amanda made a point to check in every quarter. She sent James occasional leads, shared industry insights, and invited him to joint events.
When Amanda needed a favour—a mortgage expert for her own client—James didn’t hesitate. The relationship paid off for both of them.
The Lesson: The strongest networking relationships are built on mutual trust, regular communication, and a willingness to give before you ask.
Your Networking Challenge:
Think of 3 people you’ve met in the past year who you’d like to reconnect with.
- Send them a quick email, share a helpful resource, or simply ask, “How have you been?”
Small, consistent actions build powerful professional bridges.
Happy Connecting! WLC.

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